Dealing with a breakup: I feel like my bf is giving up too early because he‘s never been in love

2021.11.30 06:20 krisn056 Dealing with a breakup: I feel like my bf is giving up too early because he‘s never been in love

My boyfriend (19M) just ended our relationship last night because he says he doesn’t know what love feels like and he’s afraid that he doesn’t know if he will feel it for me in the future.
We’ve been dating officially for 5 months and we were seeing each other before then for 4-5 months without a label. I have had a lot of trauma in my life and I tend to experience emotions very intensely: good or bad. He’s been really helpful in my fight against depression and he’s the one that got me to the doctor to start taking antidepressants and has been beside me through every bad pill until I found one that works. We weren’t officially dating for so long because neither of us was great at communication and it was hard for us to settle on what we wanted from each other. Eventually, after we both went home from college and spent a month a part, he told me that he wanted to date and he realized how much he cared about me/ missed me.
I knew I was ready for a relationship a little before he was, and I definitely wasn’t in love with him for a while, but within the last two months something changed and I knew I did. I decided to tell him how I felt because I feel the easiest way to deal with my emotions is to express them, so I don’t get overwhelmed by them. I told him from the beginning that the fact that I loved him had nothing to do with him (if that makes sense). Just because that’s how I felt, doesn’t mean he has to be racing the clock to catch up with me nor does he have to worry about if/when he will ever get there. This is his first real relationship and this is not mine. He said he understood and we’ve been amazing since. We really worked on our communication and it turned into the healthiest relationship I’ve ever seen and my therapist agreed.
The other night, however, I got the drunkest I’ve ever been in my life and I wanted to talk to him about how I felt kind of disappointed at his lack of reaction to the Hanukkah gift I made him. One thing I have trouble with is not being appreciated enough by others for favors or other things I do for people and we both agreed it’s something I need to speak up on, even though it makes me uncomfortable to bring it up. I started to spiral and got insecure about why he didn’t react. Instead of telling him directly, I went on a little drunk tangent and the conversation spiraled into something I promised I’d never do and asked him about his feelings for me/lack of love. He cried (also drunk) and said he didn’t know what love feels like and he cares for me a lot but doesn’t know if he can/will get there because he can’t predict the future. I immediately corrected myself and told him I never should have asked him that and that we were figuring it out together and just because I got my feelings fast, does not mean I had a right to question his.
We ended the night in a good note and I felt good until the next day I realized I never shared my feelings about the gift and I was a little upset with myself. He could tell and we decided to talk about it after classes. We did and I still didn’t get to tell him how I felt because he came out and said he’s confused about his feelings and doesn’t know if he can match my feelings because he’s never been in love before. I was stunned, this was not the conversation I had in mind. I tried to explain to him that we only have been seeing each other officially for 5 months and it took me 7-8 months to fall in love with my first boyfriend and just because he’s not there after a little under 5 months doesn’t mean he never will—our relationship still feels so new. We both sobbed a lot and I feel like he’s giving up because I told him how I felt so early and that feels like it’s my fault.
I don’t know what to think about the situation. I feel like I ruined the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had. Is he giving up too soon? I lost all my friends when I transferred to our school during covid and he was my support system for now until I could build new relationships like that. Do I give up? I want to fight for us, but I don’t want to ruin any chance of keeping him in my life as a friend. What do I do?
TL;DR: My boyfriend broke off our relationship because he doesn’t know what love is and he doesn’t know if he will feel it with me even though we’ve had a great relationship for the past few months. I think I ruined the relationship with my insecurity and he’s giving up too early. Do I fight for our relationship? What should I do…because I feel lost.
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I’m not going to provide the details of how I did it as it’s far too long however after persisting though a few issues I finally had it up and running.
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I did make the mistake of providing the entire supply as liquidation so took back 75% as quick as I could which I’ll lock up and or burn (once I’ve figured out how to do that).
Overall it’s given me a better insight into how a very small part of the technology works and I know I have barely scratched the surface.
Now I’m thinking of what utility i could provide with it to make it at least useful in some way.
What options do I have?
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2021.11.30 06:20 Chance_College What fishes should i put in my micro 16L tank

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2021.11.30 06:20 jillmacc2605 First day on Prozac/fluoxetine

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Hopefully this is a new chapter in our behaviour modification journey!
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A little idea of the adventure: The Earth is overcrowded, living space is limited, pollution has been devastated, the Humans of the time destroyed everything. We have to find an alternative. This is why Mr. Dobershi Nakatomo designed a crew in total discretion, with the aim of conquering new territories, and discovering new habitable lands. LP LOCK 24 months MC 30k! DoberMoon is a game where everyone can play and have fun. Possibility of playing in Free To Play unlike some games where you need several thousand dollars to start! A large collection of NFT's will be available so that each is a unique skin, allowing it to become more efficient! The project is under development. We have a lot of ambitions with regard to it. A little recap of our project so that everyone has a precise idea of the project: The NFT's will be classified among 5 categories (1) Municipality (2) Rare (3) Unique (4) Epic (5) Legendary If you invest in NFT's, it will get you more in-game bonus. However, it is possible to earn money without investing anything. We want to set up a community game, where each of you can post ideas for improvements, either in-game, or on our future platform. A community game therefore implies an acid community. We are, and will always be, listening to our players. TOKENOMICS: 12% Total Tax 5% Holders 5% Liquidity pool 2% Marketing Website : dobermoon.site Twitter : https://twitter.com/DMoonOfficial Telegram : https://t.me/DoberMoonofficialgroup 
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2021.11.30 06:20 i_identify_as_purple I have a lot of questions.

I'm not even sure where I should even be posting this. I'm also sorry for this account being new, I have an actual account that's pretty old but I also don't feel good about posting on there either.
I have this feeling, or fear really, that I won't ever get better unless I get actual answers. And I'm not exactly sure where to even start. I've gone through so much of my life with people telling me what I'm doing and how I'm feeling is completely normal, but nothing gets better.
I hate my body. I've always hated my body. I've never felt comfortable. I'm still waiting to grow to love it, but that seems to be like it's not happening. Kind of like how being bi was supposed to be a phase, but... I'm still bi. I like everyone, still. Except myself.
And it's not like I'm gross or ugly or something, at least to others, and I can only go off what I've been told, but I just don't see it. I've done quite a lot to try and grow to love it. I keep myself healthy, hydrated, I've kept myself thin, I've exercised, I've gained muscle and body tone, I've tried different clothing styles, I've tried yoga, I've tried different hair and facial hair styles. When does the loving start?
When I was a kid, I was short and stocky. For some reason, all my growth spurts got together and agreed to hold off for most of my childhood. And I was ridiculed for it. I mean, it's not like I liked it myself, but that didn't really help. So I pretty much kept to myself. Stayed quiet and tried to stay in the back. Until I was almost 17, then pow, huge growth spurt. It was during summer break, between sophomore and junior year. I was nearly 6ft now, thin, toned body and abs. I really hadn't paid it much thought really. It didn't make me feel better or anything until I went to school, first-day junior year. To me, I was still just me, so it hadn't really crossed my mind that I've changed. Wen't walking through school the first day, and I was getting looks. Good looks. Girls looking at me, boys looking at me. Felt a little good for a moment. Was very short-lived. These people teased and mocked me for the longest time, so it wasn't like I was about to be friendly all of a sudden with them, and they knew that. But what they didn't know, was that that was me walking through the school. I had so many people come up and ask about me, and who are you, are you new, did you just transfer? Uh, no, it's... me. Then, instantly back to the way it was. That... felt terrible.
That proceeded with nearly a decade of me bathing with the bathroom lights turned off. Parents sent me to shinks who told me that I was just normal, and eventually I'd grow to love and accept myself. I was put on meds that just doped me up and numbed me. And I liked it, being numb. And that felt bad. I also started getting severe panic attacks. The first one happened at school... during gym... in the locker room... It apparently looked as if I was seizing, because the school just called an ambulance that came and tranqed me. Woke up several hours later in the hospital stoned on tranqs. The best part of school was the woodworking class I took that had a buffer in the shop, and I'd use it to polish my nails. I'd paint my nails before that class, then buff them there. Best looking nails I've ever had. How do I do that now? I kind of miss those.
At least I didn't really start developing body hair really til my early 20s. I hate it. So much. The only reason I have a beard is because it covers my face. Lockdown at least gave me to excuse to literally walk out of my house with a mask on every day, even where it's not mandated, I have a mask on. Actually, I cover up my head as much as I can. Beard, glasses, beanie, hat, hood, any and everything to cover it. I hate being naked, you will never find me even remotely close unless I'm jumping in the shower. The closest I'll get is basketball shorts, and only within my house. If I leave the house, hoodie and baggy pants. I love swimming, but I never do it because I'd have to take off my shirt, and I don't even do that in my own house really. And some scrawny tall dude swimming with a t-shirt just looks weird and I don't want attention. I hate pictures being taken of me. I don't even really have pictures of myself. I've been talking with someone recently, and I wanted to show them a pic of me younger, but I don't really have any. My parents have pics of me as a child, and the oldest pic I have of myself is from this year. I'm in my 30s. There's like a 20+yr gap of photos I just don't have because of my insecurities. Is that even normal? The idea of someone taking my photo makes me recoil. It shouldn't, should it? I've been trying to take photos recently due to this realization, and I do not like it.
Why do I feel this way? Why do I hate my body so much? Aren't I suppose to be happy or comfortable with my body? Why did so many people tell me this is normal and fine?
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2021.11.30 06:19 Dreammy-selkie *38 [F4M]*penpal/online friend

The year is drawing to a close, and we would probably all appreciate some respite during the holidays after a challenging year
.How're u doing?Reddior ?
.During these days,after a hurtful fare well, i am trying to consciously take some distance from feelings and give myself enough space to find inner clarity. The profound collective changes in which we all participate can hardly be judged conclusively yet.
So, not sure about should or should not being love a gain, but may be i need a friend
Eventhough everytime i show my face, there are thousands of wolves around.
Still, holding my belief,and never letting go.hmmm where is my bear ?
Im in my 35s, dreammy, dumb, stulidity,shy.But i know what is wrong and right.
Love :star war, we bare bears, horror movies,honestly people.
Im chubby,not skinny
Im selective, not anti
Im friendly,not atractive :P
Im short, but cute
Freak, but not bored.
If you saw something in this post, and you are from 33, Then you may be my bear.:P
Last last time, I try my luck here.So help me God.
I got a full time career, so forgive me if I do send late reply.
I got discord and telegram , wont use kik and snap for my own reason.
Hope to see my bear soon :P
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